Message in a bottle for July 9th – “parenting with wisdom and love”
I logged on to think about and create a response to this message about parenting and what do I find in my reader box but a blog post by a young mom in England who is the parent of a spina bifida daughter -she has written all about the things she thought she would never do as a mom – some of which she has held to but much she hasn’t. Circumstances and reality get in the way of what we imagine for ourselves and our children.
As a parent of grown children and a teacher of preschool children I am and have been witness to all kinds of children. Young parents often ask my advice. The best advice I’ve ever received came from my daughter’s toddler teacher (28 years ago!): whatever is your child’s most challenging trait will be a gift when they are grown up,
and my own addition to that advice is this: the trait you enjoy most about them is the one you will need to nurture and keep alive in them as they grow up and succumb to the world.